Lately, I’ve been reflecting a lot and realized something important—my circle is getting smaller, and honestly? I’m okay with it. I used to think having many friends meant having a strong support system, but now I see that not everyone who’s around is truly there for me. It’s tough to differentiate between those who genuinely care and those who are just present when it’s convenient.
I’ve misread people before. I thought some were my closest friends, but in reality, they weren’t. And surprisingly, the ones I never expected—those I didn’t pay much attention to—turned out to be the ones who genuinely care. They don’t just say they care; they show it in their actions. Whether it’s through small gestures, random check-ins, sharing helpful information, or simply being a quiet but constant presence in my life.
To those friends I might have overlooked but who never overlooked me—thank you. You know who you are. I appreciate you more than I can express. Life has a way of showing us who truly belongs in our corner, and I’m grateful for that clarity.
I’m learning that true friendship isn’t about how often we talk or how long we’ve known each other. It’s about who sticks around through every season of life—who’s there beyond the good times, who stands by me even when things get tough.
If you’re feeling the same way, just know it’s okay to outgrow people, and it’s okay to have a smaller circle. What matters most is having the right people in it.
So today, I just want to take a moment to say: I see you, I appreciate you, and I’m grateful for you. 🤍